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Birth story - Pandemic pregnancy

Thank you might be the least smallest word i can say to the people who kept me in their prayers ! 

Who were really worried about me and my pregnancy and were supportive.

This pregnancy and baby birth gave me a whole new perspective how a positive and a negative vibes influence us .

It's been 24 hrs of false labour pain.
6 hrs of god know what on earth that pain to categorize.
Amid prevailing covid situation and restrictions.

On 25th night the pain started by 11pm and it continued around the clock till morning
On 26th came to hospital to get admitted on 11 am my husband left me in the visiting area(due to covid restrictions) with a hug and was in  tears , though I couldn't hold on mine i said to myself to be strong not to waste my energy. As there is a big day waiting ahead of me.
Doc after seeing him all alone and with tears in the visiting area told him that it's gonna be alright.
After doctors examination thank fully my cervix opened 3 cm already !  She told me to call my husband and say him nothing to worry , he seemed little worried.
They inserted a balloon like object to open my cervix more ! 
And it's all started there, contractions started to occur every 8 mins.
I was happy, but midwives told me only if the timing between the  contraction decrease its a good sign.
I waited till 3 pm to remove the balloon, to see the improvement.
I counted number of contractions gonna come in last 30 mins , i consoled myself just  4 more contractions you will be free.(calculated literally in 8 table multiplications)
After removing the balloon it  kind off felt fine for 3 hrs, i was able to walk slowly. However my cervix was opened only 4 cm.
Doc told me , if the cervix is not opened more by tomorrow morning let's induce,! for which am not ok with.
I don't know why, i didn't want to get induced from the very initial phase i was told about induced labour, so started to walk around to help my cervix, was telling my baby to help me dilate the cervix more and i don't want to get induced.

Midwives advised not to walk too much and make myself tired as there is big day awaiting you need more energy.
After walking for 20 minutes i went to rest a bit but I can't , it was around 10.30 pm The contraction started slowly and it became intense and  it kick-started the contractions

Many gave me a positive notes to remember during contraction and labour.
Many made me hear so many negativity which tend to break me 
But during my labour all i wanted is to bring our my baby safe and good .Also damn man , its been 42 complete weeks and this little kiddo resting inside and decided not to  come out . I lost my patience and i just wanted my baby to come out. 

To be continued . . . 

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