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Chapter - 4 Stay at home is our choice

Covid-19 The Pandemic pregnancy 


I happened to watch this movie named Thappad, and it really got me amazed. Many people think post-marriage women staying at home is treated as a privilege. 

But the truth is! That's really a woman's  choice to make for the family. As many claims that women have the freedom to choose to be at or to work. 

Oh, come on man, does she have the freedom to choose not to have a baby and continue her career?

And few say women can’t do all things which men can do, so don’t work your ass off to be equal to men.

That’s completely true, women can't do all the things men can do, the same applies to men’s too. Men can’t do all the things women do.

Who is ready to donate their bottle of blood just like water every month and move on, women do in her periods every month. To be clear am not being a sexist or the so-called “ feminist” here. It’s not our choice, it’s natural and so do the baby bearing and other kinds of stuff. 

Coming back to the point women are equal to men, actually, they are not and shouldn’t try to be equal to men. Women and men are two different species to be precise, both have distinctiveness and identity, don’t confuse, and strive for what can’t be made a reality.

For me taking a break and staying at home is my own choice and I believe I made my choice bold and clear to do so.

To take a break plan for a baby and to resume my career, it’s a choice in which I never let my husband or any other person take me or treat me for granted.

I have the luxury of making this choice gratefully, I know many women out there who are unable to have this luxury to opt-out these choices.

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